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How Can I Forget Someone I Love So Much?

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How can I forget someone I love so much? It’s a question that often plagues our minds after a break-up. We may have invested months, even years, into a relationship only to find ourselves struggling to move on afterwards. Whether the break-up was mutual or one-sided, the process of forgetting someone we used to love can be immensely difficult. So how can we achieve it?

There is no single answer to this question as everyone will deal with heartbreak differently. Some may find that they are able to forget their ex relatively quickly while others may struggle for months or even years. There are a few things that may help in the forgetting process however, such as staying busy, speaking kindly to yourself and spending time with loved ones.

It is important to give yourself time and space after a break-up in order to heal properly. This means avoiding any contact with your ex if possible and instead focusing on activities that make you happy. Keeping yourself busy will prevent you from dwelling on thoughts of your ex and it is also beneficial for your mental health in general. It is also crucial to be kind to yourself during this time; negative self-talk will only hinder your progress in moving on from the relationship. Finally, surrounding yourself with.
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How to Stop Dwelling on Your Past Mistakes

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It is not uncommon to find oneself dwelling on past events, both good and bad. This can be a normal part of the grieving process, but it can also become detrimental if it starts to interfere with your ability to live in the present. If you find yourself stuck in a pattern of dwelling on the past, there are some things you can do to try and break free.

First, try to become aware of when you are doing it. This may not be easy at first, but it is important to catch yourself in the act so that you can begin to change your behavior. Once you are aware that you are dwelling on the past, take a moment to assess why you are doing it. Is there something specific that you are hoping to gain from this line of thinking? Or is it just a way of avoiding the present?

If there is something specific you are hoping to gain from thinking about the past, ask yourself if there is another way to get that same thing without fixating on what has already happened. For example, if you dwell on a past failure in order to motivate yourself not make the same mistake again, try instead focusing on what steps you will take in the future to avoid such failures. If your goal is simply escape from the.
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Emotionally Stuck

Why Am I Emotionally Stuck in the Past?

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It is not uncommon to feel emotionally stuck in the past. This can happen for a variety of reasons, including unresolved trauma, unresolved grief, and unhealed wounds. When we are emotionally stuck in the past, it can feel like we are reliving the pain over and over again. We may find ourselves ruminating on negative thoughts and experiences, and avoiding anything that reminds us of the hurt. This can lead to feelings of isolation, depression, anxiety, and even rage. It can be difficult to move forward when we are stuck in the past, but it is possible with some self-awareness and effort.
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Why Is It So Hard to Move on From the Past?

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When we are faced with pain, heartache, or disappointment, it is natural to want to hold on to anything that brings us comfort. The problem is, holding on to the past can prevent us from living in the present and enjoying all that life has to offer. Why is it so hard to let go of the past?

There are many reasons why we might find it difficult to move on from a painful experience. For one, our brains are wired to protect us from potential harm. This means that when we experience something negative, our brain will try to remember it so that we can avoid a similar situation in the future. Additionally, holding on to the pain of the past can give us a sense of control over our lives. When everything else feels out of control, remembering a time when we were hurt can make us feel like we have at least some power over our lives.

Finally, letting go of the past can be scary because it means admitting that what happened was real and that we can not change it. It can be easier to hold on to the pain because then we don’t have face up to reality and deal with all of the emotions that come with it. However, by holding on to the past, we are only causing ourselves more pain.
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How to Talk to Someone With Dissociative Identity Disorder

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Dissociative identity disorder (DID) is a mental health condition characterized by the presence of two or more distinct identities or personality states. Each identity has its own unique pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaving. Individuals with DID may feel like they are switching between these identities, or that different identities are taking control of their behavior. They may also have gaps in their memory.

It is important to remember that individuals with DID are not acting; they can not just “snap out of it.” If you know someone with DID, it is important to be patient and understanding. Here are some tips on what to say (and not say) to someone with DID:

Do:

-Acknowledge that their experience is real for them.

-Validate their feelings.

-Listen without judgment.

-Encourage them to seek professional help if they want it.
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Discover the First Signs of a Personality Disorder

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A personality disorder is a mental illness that can cause an individual to experience significant problems with their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. Personality disorders are usually first diagnosed in adolescence or early adulthood, and the symptoms typically continue throughout an individual’s life.

The first signs of a personality disorder may include:

-Unusual or extreme thoughts and beliefs

-Impulsive or risky behaviour

-Intense emotions or mood swings

-Problems with relationships and social interactions.
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